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About The Engagement Project

Hi! Welcome to The Engagement Project.

I’ve been single here for what’s starting to feel like an uncomfortably long time. Broke up with the live-in ex nearly a year ago. And sure, there’s been the flings, the first dates, the reprises with exboyfriends… but nothing is sticking. Frankly, its time for a little self improvement: a good hard look at my current lifestyle and habits.

Probably you can relate: I may drink a bit too much sometimes, I date boys that are bad for me, I like salty, greasy food and I’m guilty of skipping an outdoors activity or two for a good Criminal Minds marathon. I forget that meeting quality men often means foregoing the fratty open bar scene for more grown up options, maybe even something not drinking related. I know, it sounds crazy to me, too.

The name of the blog may be a little misleading but the general premise is this: I’m only going to be happy in the future, and find what I want in a mate, if I can change some of my less-than-constructive habits and expand my interests. The best way to make new habits stick is to tell people about them. So I’ll do that here. And I’ll let you know, along the way, how the transformation is going.

– Bea

18 Comments leave one →
  1. April 21, 2010 9:47 am

    Oh, I’m with you, so so much.

  2. April 21, 2010 10:11 am

    you are sooooo honest to yourself and I love that!:)

  3. spazstonernme permalink
    April 21, 2010 10:18 am

    LOVE your blog!

  4. April 21, 2010 10:38 am

    If you have that level of self awareness now, you’ll make the transformation for sure. The best of luck to you.

  5. April 21, 2010 10:44 am

    Living in the moment is what is most important. Best of luck to you!

  6. Giuliano permalink
    April 21, 2010 11:03 am

    No one cares.

  7. April 21, 2010 3:22 pm

    Dear Bea!
    I love reading your blog, although I was misled here by the title, but I’m glad I got here.
    I can so relate to you with the too much drinking and dating the wrong guys etc.

  8. clevelandatbat permalink
    April 21, 2010 10:16 pm

    love the blog! so cute!

  9. April 22, 2010 3:39 am

    Careful not to identify too much with the blog identity you’re creating… otherwise finding a man will have you lose your online persona! then what will you write about. Lol

  10. July 13, 2010 11:33 am

    Criminal Minds = My obsession 🙂

  11. loveandcoco permalink
    July 20, 2010 6:22 am

    Love the blog!

  12. mintyfreshmommy permalink
    July 20, 2010 7:30 am

    Your posts are hauntingly familiar of my own past life. Right down to last night’s post about Super-Ex. I did that A LOT. Keep being honest. It is nothing other than commendable.


  13. September 7, 2010 11:13 pm

    Are you kidding? You need me. I need you. It is a dying breed, wingwomen for sure.

  14. A friend permalink
    February 1, 2011 7:18 am

    Go fuck yourself you desperate loser dumbnut bitch.


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